What do you expect love to look like, when you grow older?
A shrug of her shoulder; her response caused a pause.
Not like you and daddy; and that shit, it really had me.
Through all the bullshit, I thought, our love, illuminated. But, it was over-casted, by the doubt, we generated.
The best versions of us, to her, were alone; and with that, I was crushed.
Have I passed her, my hate of love?
I then replied, with a heart felt sigh.
Maybe, love does come on horseback. Just maybe, chivalry, isn’t in lack.
Maybe, there are a few good knights, to lead the way, making for, not so lonely nights, until, with your king, you stay.
Maybe together, daddy and I, weren’t meant to stay; and maybe one day, we will part ways, but not knowing, is ok.
You can love, in the moment; and treasure every minute. Quoting, the greatest omens; and loving the reality in it.
Start with yourself. Know, that loving you, is the greatest wealth. Don’t accept, nothing else.
Any less, than the best, will have to give way, to the rest. Don’t be afraid, to put love to the test.
Don’t let your expectations be greeted with uncertainty, love, with clarity; no wavering.
Heartbreaks, are simply stepping stones, in our self journey, that we travel alone. Remember, No matter the road you bode, in me and Jesus, you’ll find your home.
Cherish love, but start within, while looking above. And your daddy and I, when push come to shove, each other, we do love. Come, Give your mama a hug.
As a parent, I want to tell my #daughters not to #settle for anything less than #perfect. As an adult, I know that no #relationship is perfect.
The thought that my SO and I’s #imperfections outshined our love for one another, over the span of 14 years, was a low blow.
I mean, him and I have #grown together, since I was 19, him 21. We’ve done some learning along the way and shed some tears, from both our eyes. We’ve also laughed and enjoyed each other’s company.
Compared to my childhood, seeing my mama bounce from man to man, being beat over the head and strung through the house, I thought I was providing a pretty clear picture of love. Apparently not. #Cinderella and #Prince Charming still have a better love story to strive for, I reckon.
As her mama I want to approve that thought, nobody will ever be good enough for her, to me. Setting her up for heartache is the last thing I want to do though. Love’s not perfect, for anyone. There is one love, however, that’s perfect for you.
What would you tell your daughters in regards to expectations of love? Comment below!
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